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If you’re really tired of being single, develop a thicker skin and put yourself out there. Your chances are pretty good, considering most people these days are looking for a special someone too.

You may feel you are the only single lady in the world, but trust me, you are not alone. Below are what to do when you are tired of being single.

  1. Ask yourself why are you single

Being single isn’t bad. But in order to understand why you are single, it’s best to identify “why,” so you can take steps to move into a relationship if that’s what you want.

  1. Have faith in yourself

Believe in yourself, let your mind be at peace and hope for the best. Instead of disturbing yourself over minor issues, why not focus on yourself and think about the way forward. Focus less on how you are tired of being single and more on what you can do with the time and life you have.

  1. Don’t lower your standard

No matter how much you want to be in a relationship, don’t lower your standards. . Don’t settle down with someone who has no idea of what he plans doing and isn’t even trying.

  1. Be patient

Don’t rush into a relationship because you feel you are becoming too old. Mind you, those who rush in only  rush out in the end. The stronger your  fear of being single, the more willing you are to settle for a partner who isn’t a good match for you.

  1. Attend parties

Don’t let the fear of being single weigh you down. You are beautiful in your own way, have fun, smile and enjoy the life you have now because no one knows what the future holds for him or her. Take part in your friends’ joy and enjoy life. This life is very short to be spent worrying.

  1. Build your self-confidence

Mind you, being in a relationship does not make you a better and more successful person. So don’t think less of yourself for being single; rather, this is the time to focus on all the things that make you feel great as well as the things to make yourself even better.

  1. Live in the moment

Embrace the present. Focus on the present moment and leave the past to the past so that you can enjoy where you are and who you are in life right now.

  1. Stay positive

Be happy and content within yourself and never think that you are not worthy because you are not in a relationship, or that you’re a loser for not being in a relationship. Instead, remind yourself to look on the bright side of life and that there are a lot of good things to be gained in moments of singleness and solitude.