I am 38 and still unmarried. I think I am beautiful and kind, but I don’t seem to attract men who are interested in marriage. What is wrong with me? (Joy, Lagos)
First of all, I want you to appreciate the privilege of life and good health. It is because you are alive, well and sane that you think men aren’t interested in you. Secondly, I appreciate the fact that you know you are beautiful. A healthy sense of self-esteem is very important in attracting the right partner. Thirdly, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I’ll encourage you to be patient. God has a time-plan for you and at His appointed time, He’ll bring your man your way. Please do not be anxious, so you don’t fall into wrong hands. I understand that you feel the biological clock is ticking, but don’t worry, God has got your back. He’ll restore to you whatever you think you might have lost. Trust God with your life, and you won’t have any cause for regret, always remember, He’s got the blue print of your life. As you stay in faith, know that God will choose you even when people overlook you. God comes late, when He wants to come big.