Being out of a relationship while everybody around you seem to be in one can be disturbing. There is the feeling of dread, alarm and self-pity that tend to seep in and get you depressed. You may feel you are the only single lady in the world and thus, lonely. But trust me, you are not alone. Below are what to do when you are getting worried about being single.
Ask yourself why are you single
Being single isn’t a bad thing. But in order to understand your present situations, it’s best to identify “why” so you can take steps to move into a relationship if that’s what you want. However, you don’t have to rush into a relationship because you really want one. You also need to take your time because those who rush in also tend to rush out.
Have faith in yourself
Believe in yourself, let your mind be free of worries. Let your mind be at peace and hope for the best. Instead of disturbing yourself over minor issues, why not focus on yourself and think about the way forward. Focus less on thinking about being single and more on what you can do with the time and life you have.
Don’t lower your standard
No matter how much you want to be in a relationship, don’t lower yourself or stoop low. Don’t settle down with someone who has no idea of what they plan on doing and aren’t even trying to get focused.
Don’t rush into a relationship because you feel you are becoming too old. Remember those who rush in intend to rush out. The stronger your fears of being single, the more willing you are to settle for a partner who isn’t a good match for you. So you need to be patient and take your time, don’t be in a haste.
Don’t let the fear of being single weigh you down, you are beautiful in your own way. Have fun, simile and enjoy the life you have now because no one knows what the future holds for him or her. Take part in your friends’ joy and enjoy life. Remember that life is too short to be spent worrying.
Build your self-confidence
Being in a relationship does not make you a better and more successful person. Don’t think less of yourself for being single; rather this is the time to focus on all the things that make you feel great, as well as some little things to make yourself even better, then you work on them to be a better person.
Live in the moment
Embrace the present. Focus on the present moment and leave the past to the past and the future in the future so that you can enjoy where you are and who you are in life right now.
Be happy and content within yourself and never think that you are not worthy because you are not in a relationship, or that you’re a loser for not being in a relationship. Instead, remind yourself to look on the bright side of life and keep in mind that there are a lot of good things to be gained in moments of singleness and solitude.